Booking Ettiquete
“Good sex is like good bridge. If you don’t have a good partner, you’d better have a good hand.”
― Mae West
I believe that pleasure is a human right and that everyone deserves to feel desired, appreciated, and truly alive.
My approach as a luxury escort is rooted in mutual respect, authenticity, and passion. Whether we share a short rendezvous or a longer escape, my aim is to create a connection that leaves you smiling long after we part ways.
Let’s create something extraordinary together.
Boundaries & Consent
At the start of our booking together, we will have an open conversation to talk through each other’s desires and boundaries. Rest assured, if anyone seems uncomfortable during the booking, I will pause and check in, and we will make any adjustments to help everyone feel safe.
I do not offer anal play on myself (fingers, toys, or genitals), nipple play on myself, or rough play on myself (biting or hard spanking).
Condoms are required by law during penetrative and oral sex with escorts and are a non-negotiable. I will provide these.
As much as we all love surprising our loved one, I cannot confirm a booking unless both partners are aware of the booking being made due to consent. If you still want to surprise them, you can print out this voucher to surprise them with before you make a booking together!
Making a Booking
When messaging to make a booking, please include:
- You & your partner’s name
- Preferred days & times
- Preferred booking length
- Preferred location (see below)
- Which service/experience you want with Carmen
Bookings made at least 24 hours in advance are ideal to ensure Carmen can meet you at your requested time.
Location
First-time bookings can be held either at your own hotel, or at my discreet apartment in Upper CBD. Prices are different for either location – please see Services page. Only on subsequent bookings can I come to your private residence, at my discretion.
If you are booking a hotel, please tell me the room number as soon as you know, for my safety. If the room number is not provided at least an hour before the booking, it will be cancelled.
If you are booking in for my apartment, I will provide the exact address will be provided on the day of the booking. There is plenty of on-street parking available.
For my safety, I cannot accept bookings at motels, motor lodges, or Airbnbs.
Discretion
I will not contact you unsolicited, unless to confirm a booking or cancel a booking. Please let me know when making a booking if you would like these messages to be discreet – I.e. “Still on for coffee later?” / “Sorry, I can’t make it for coffee later”
Bookings must be confirmed the morning of the booking.
If you are meeting at a hotel, before the booking I will ask who I am meeting in the lobby and what they will be wearing. This is to ensure the public meeting is natural and discreet.
Payment
Payment is due on arrival. Cash only. Please bring exact amount – sorry, change cannot be provided.
Payment for discovery calls can be used towards the first booking, however cannot be refunded.
Hygiene
If I am meeting you at your hotel room, please shower before your booking. If you are meeting at my apartment, I will direct you to the shower on your arrival. Good hygiene is mandatory for a comfortable and fun booking.
Timing
The booking begins as I enter your hotel room, or you enter my apartment, and ends when I leave your hotel/you leave my apartment. I have a good grasp of time, so as the booking nears the end, I will begin wrapping up so that we can leave on time.
I recommend minimum 1.5 hour bookings for first-time bookings so that there is plenty of time to get comfortable with each other, and no pressure to move onto things before we are all ready.
Alcohol
I am happy to partake in a glass of wine or two, however, if you are intoxicated on arrival, or become heavily intoxicated throughout the booking, I will reschedule or cancel the booking at my discretion and no refund will be offered.
If you have a question that wasn’t answered here, please visit my FAQ page or Book a Discovery Call.
This is for you if...
- You're both insterested in bringing something (or someone) new to the relationship
- You're wanting to explore your bisexuality or non-monogamy alongside your partner
- You both feel able to commuicate openly, honestly, and without pressure, and have talked about what you are wanting out of this.
This isn't for you if...
- You’re in an unhappy relationship and hoping a threesome or seeing an escort will “fix” it
- One person is wanting to do this, and the other is "allowing" it, or feels pressured into it (not enthusiastically consenting)
- You haven't talked to your partner about it, or discussed openly each others wants and desires
Want to talk first?
Book a Discovery Call
Curious about how I can bring your fantasy to life? Let’s connect! A discovery call is the perfect way to discuss your desires, set the mood, and plan our unforgettable encounter.
Book your call today and let’s start something incredible.